Near the Lybian border




This morning I woke up to the sun rising over the desert. We finished our desert safari last night sleeping under the stars on the sand.

They took us in 4 wheel drive vehicles on a desert excursion, climbing peaks and sliding down. It looked like one of my brothers' video games only if we flipped, we probably wouldn't get a couple more lives to live. We stopped a few times and I tumbled down one particularly steep mountain of sand and we watched the desert change colors as the sun set.

We were in an Oasis near the Libyan border called Siwa. We've been wearing swim suits all day the last few days because before we took our desert excursion we dipped into fresh water springs hot and cold all over the oasis. The idea of mirage seems so much more real now.

The Egyptians have a phrase they use, "Har Moot". Har means Heat/Hot. Moot means Death. In other words, Death by Heat. But we didn't die because I'm writing this and back in Alexandria and civilization again...not that I wouldn't mind staying there for a while.

Jerusalem: Fayez

A Palestinian Family

Part VI

Fayez, the oldest son, came home nights with stories of Israelis making degrading comments all day to him at work. His parents listened telling him not to be angry. His papa worked in Israel also, in Ein Kerem, and spoke Hebrew. He carpooled to work with some neighbors.

Levantine Cuisine

Levantine Cuisine

Hair hid behind the hijab.

A cross around another's neck.

Two women share their secrets

Of home learned recipes. And

The Egyptian didn't know the Syrian's

Levantine cuisine.

The next day American women

Turn off the news in disgust.

And one says to the other

Arabs are all terrorists.

Some Americans misunderstand Arabs. This poem comes from a real experience overhearing two women sharing family recipes. I was struck that they didn't know each other's traditional foods and wished that all Americans could see how different they are from each other and realize the dangers of stereotyping.

Tweeting the Middle East

Tom Regan, a journalist for the Christian Science Monitor, suggested tweeting the Middle East. So I started a Twitter account and gave it a try. Great idea. Did you know you can follow Ha'aretz, the liberal Israeli news service? Or why not follow Iran or #iranelection? CNN Breaking News? Soon you're getting up to date information from various points of view on the hottest topics in the Middle East. If anyone knows a news service from the Arab world, please let me know.

Trip Plans

Tomorrow early morning departure: DC (Orientation)

June 25/26: 9 hour layover Frankfurt (In Sha Allah a look around the city)

June 27: Arrive in Egypt

My grandpa called me on the phone to tell me Egypt was his favorite place to visit. Didn't know that before. I love that guy. I stopped by to see him and my grandma. They gave me all the Middle Eastern advice they normally do. Then my grandpa stood outside and watched me leave. That meant a lot to me.

PS-I might not be able to post again in real time for a while so I am pre-scheduling some posts here so it will continue to run consistently.

Middle East a little hot

So this will be my fourth trip heading to the Middle East. I'm getting the last details tied down and thinking about what's ahead. There have been a lot of well wishers and I'm gonna need as many as I can get.

You kinda have to be a tough cookie as an American girl. There are guys who grab in Egypt. And, if you’re in Cairo, you’ll never make it on the metro during busy hours if you don’t push. (Cairo was great job training for high school teaching.) ;)

Don’t even start to be flattered by things guys say to you. Yawn and walk away. Actually…they love that. (I think a lot of guys like that.) Act deaf and then deck 'em if they don’t get the hint. Learn phrases like “Alai khaliik, ya akhi.” (God keep you my brother.) In other words—well, I’ll let you pick your own translation for that one.

Oh, and did I mention it is little hot--ok, maybe a lot hot. I hear Alexandria is cooler than Cairo but that’s not saying much. I looked it up. This week the high is only 95 but that’s just getting started. Last July and August, a friend of mine in Syria reminded me from his blog posts just how hot hot can be. I’m not expecting AC either. My Arab friends tell me I should at least wear sleeves to my elbows and pants to my ankles. Yikes.

To Alexandria, Egypt

The Department of State: Bureau of Educational and Cultural Affairs is sending teachers of Arabic to Alexandria, Egypt to strengthen what is considered a critical need language in schools across the country. The program's official name is the Intensive Summer Language Institute for Arabic. I am going this year with the program. We leave next week.

This is one of the exchanges Obama spoke about in his speech in Cairo recently.

Jerusalem: Soaps

A Palestinian Family
Part V
If "Noor" was on TV, the house went completely still. Mom and Dad didn't like the Turkish prime time soap opera, but they watched. Mom still kept tabs on the plot even when she wasn't there. The boys dropped in for an update from their sisters. Salsabil pulled a chair right under the TV to watch glued and deaf to everything else. Mom and Dad's biggest concern about the soap? Muhanad and Noor, the two main characters live together unmarried.

Jerusalem: Wein Audrey?


A Palestinian Family
Part IV
Salsabil spoke Arabic very quickly to me, amused I couldn't always understand. She also spoke English, very loudly I should add. I don't think they realized how much Arabic I understood, though. One night Nusaiba, the mom, yelled at her kids, "Wein Audrey?! (pronounced Wayne)Wein Audrey?!" No one answered so I went to her and said, "I'm here." She looked startled and gave me a 'caught in the act' grin. She was asking where I was.

Obama's Speech in Cairo

I got a phone call this morning around 9:30am from Washington D.C. My contacts at Relief International: Schools Online and the State Department Bureau of Educational and Cultural Affairs wanted me to get on Skype to speak to youth from across Palestine to talk about Obama’s Speech in Cairo. We spoke to these Palestinian youth for about an hour live fielding comments and questions.

They were generally positive. Some of the old frustrations are still there of course but the dialogue is changing. When Obama says he will open up opportunities for exchanges, I know that this is true because we are recipients of these exchanges. When Obama talks about a student in Kansas talking online in real time to students in Cairo, it was happening between me in Utah and Palestinians in Ramallah almost as he spoke those words.

I believe things are changing.

Watch the speech.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BlqLwCKkeY&feature=player_embedded

Jerusalem: Out-bridged


A Palestinian Family
Part III

Talaal and I became pals when I let him play my hand of Pit cards and showed him how to shuffle a bridge. Anwar and Ibrahim couldn't be out-bridged by their younger brother and I ended up with a lot of warped cards.

Talaal met me every day as I got off the shuttle coming home. I would ask him what he did that day. He quickly learned to keep it very simple and use hand gestures. "Leab" (play) he said then showed me things.

...to be continued.

Jerusalem: "You're Turning Green."

A Palestinian Family
Part II
Although my first night with the family was a little tense, the ice broke when I came home the second day with heat stroke. Salsabil says, "You're turning green. Do you need to go to the restroom?" For the next couple hours I ran back and forth to the bathroom. Once I even opened the door to the kids making gagging noises and giggling.

(no picture included...on purpose.)

...to be continued.

Jerusalem: A Friendly Parakeet


A Palestinian Family in Jerusalem
Part I

Ibrahim doesn’t feel completely comfortable with someone until his parakeet is walking on their head. Apparently that’s how the family bonds because they all, including their papa, seem to be pretty used to letting the parakeet perch there. And yes, staying in their home I, too, took a turn under the bird.

...to be continued.


Cairo: Less and Less Women, More and More Men

This was the trip to Cairo that led me to not advertise my connections to the Middle East. It would be 8 years before someone discovered my Arabic past which consequently led me back into the Arab world. But that is a story for a different post.

What did I love about Cairo the second time?

My happiest memory was with a guy I hung out with our whole Arabic program. We often bolted from our group adding a touch of Indiana Jones. Riding camels into the sunset next to the pyramids wasn't exactly on our itinerary. And despite the travel weariness, the sicknesses, and the whatever-else’s, sitting high on the camels was regal, above the chaos of the city and in touch with the ancient.

Mosque Oasis

The traffic, mud brick, and raw meat hanging could make your first impression of Cairo wrong. I learned this the day my Arabic professor took us on a tour of mosques in the city. As we wound through markets, dusty streets, butcheries, he stopped in front of a gate, pushed it open to a mosque; an oasis of simplicity, cleanliness, and trees. My little girl heart was enchanted and I wanted to linger a few more minutes. No wonder Muslims like mosques.

Midnight Train from Luxor

If you are traveling from Luxor to Cairo you can take the midnight train. Our Arabic professor booked our passage in 2nd class. It all began as you would expect. The train slowed for 2 min allowing us to throw our bags on the train and jump on. A while into the ride, in the middle of a half conscious sleep a crowd of anxious villagers boarded the train with a man on their shoulders wailing. I dreaded the thought of why. As the mob passed, the bottom of his foot touched my arm. I spent the night imagining I would die in Egypt of some disease. After unloading from the train I asked if anyone knew what happened. His back was broken. I felt terrible. I had been worried about myself not having a moment of compasion for him.

Something happened.

I got really sick. We traveled for a month, washing clothes in the shower with shampoo, eating at street stands. My friends got sick, too. But all of that may have easily been forgotten.

My Arabic professor asked me and a couple of the guys to visit a man living in a Cairo slum. I dressed modestly and covered my hair. Traveling deeper into Cairo and with the sun setting I noticed less and less women and more and more men. We changed transportation several times finally crossing train tracks into an area without paved streets where mud caked the ground and lights hung from ropes in the street.

As we entered the neighborhood, men swarmed the two guys I was with parading them around like heroes. The men were so tightly packed they didn’t notice me on the outside of the mob. I started to panic but they couldn't hear me. Then a man selling vegetables began throwing them at me with full strength hitting me hard. Men called me names.

We did make it to the house of the man we were to visit. But when he saw me, he told the two guys never to bring a woman there at night and they were lucky nothing happened to me. He refused to visit with us, immediately bought out an entire taxi-van and took us directly back. I was grateful that he valued my safety.

I got on the plane headed home deciding not to advertise that I studied Arabic or had connections to the Middle East at all.

Cairo: Modernity

I once stayed at a sprawling four star hotel with a large group of Brigham Young University students outside Cairo. We were often possessive of the air conditioning in the hotel lobby and restaurants after hot days. I remember a song playing outside drawing me out of the lobby into the evening air to gaze at the Egyptian stars.
“Don’t Cry for me Argentina.”
Didn't expect to hear it. The song is from an American made movie about Argentina which I first saw in Israel with Hebrew subtitles; reminding me that Cairo isn’t only about pyramids.

Cairo: Abraham's Pyramids

Bonding with Abraham and Moses.

Giza, now almost a suburb of Cairo, is home to the great pyramids. The pyramids and city press upon each other. You can drive from a thriving metropolis to an ancient wonder in minutes. The pyramid building era ended in about 2150 BC meaning you can look at structures Abraham (approx. 1813-1638 BC) and Moses would have seen passing through the same land. What thoughts would pass through your mind staring at the pyramids? Would those same thoughts have passed through Abraham’s? You would now have shared an experience with Moses.

City of Oranges: An Intimate History of Arabs and Jews in Jaffa

City of Oranges written by Adam LeBor is one of my favorite reads on contemporary Israeli-Palestinian history. The book is written through the stories of prominent families, Arab and Jewish humanizing their struggle and conflict. I also appreciate that the stories are told around the city of Jaffa instead of Jerusalem which holds more political rancor.

The theme I gleaned from the book was that Jew and Arabs have gotten along for centuries with only minor scuffles. The story line picks up at a point when the dynamics of the area change with an influx of people who really don't understand each other.

One of my favorite parts was when a Jewish family returned to their old Cairene neighborhood to find that their long time Arab friends missed them. It touched me and gave me hope for the future relationship of two peoples I care about.

Cairo: Auntie comes home

Cairo was not a city I was expecting to get to know.

Sitting in a tire swing outside of our house in Utah, I watched my aunt come by one day not long before she left to go on a CASA program to study intensive Arabic for a year in Cairo. I would have been 10 or 11 at the time. We just moved to the United States from Okinawa. I was struggling with the culture shock having no real memory of the US except for a couple visits to family. She was one of my anchors mentoring me through a turbulent time while I was learning slang and how to get along with American kids. The stories I heard while she was in Cairo left an imprint on me. She came home, got married, now has two kids and still speaks both Arabic and Hebrew. Her particular stories didn’t stick with me as much as the idea that learning Arabic seemed like a good idea. Oh, and you gotta push if you wanna get on the metro.

That's when I started to get used to Cairo.

Syria: Damascus & Aleppo

“They all lived next door to each other and they didn’t give a d—. They thought it was perfectly normal.” –Peter Sluglett, a British historian at the University of Utah talking about Muslims, Christians, and Jews living together in Aleppo, Syria.

My conception of Syria changed at my Middle Eastern cities class from the University of Utah.

My misconception that Syria’s wounded pride over Israel’s annexation of the Golan Heights and the West meddling in its affairs drove it to hang out with some bad friends so to speak.

Today I learned that Syria realizes that war with Israel is not always the best option so it supports bad behavior on several fronts to have bargaining chips at the negotiating table with Israel.

Although Syria funds radical Islam abroad, it doesn’t tolerate it at home. They have suppressed and even rounded up radical Islamists in Damascus. Apparently it’s getting harder to deal with radical Islamists at home, though, because they are slowly infiltrating the bureaucracy. I appreciate the fact that Syria sees this as a problem.

There are some interesting pictures and videos of Damascus ancient and modern on Ewa Wasilewska's website, a Polish archeologist. Click here for the site.

Damascus: Three Views

Damascus through my interactions with three people.

A travelor: my grandma, a photographer: John Wreford, and a CASA student: Zachary Queen.

Grandma: Growing up I saw the beautiful copper and emroidered linens of my grandparents’ home which I lived in for many years. Of course, no mention about copper is complete without a lively story of how my grandma got them in and out of Syria. Syria has this semi-mysterious quality because the country is forbidden to anyone with an Israeli stamp in their passport. And of course, my grandparents lived in Israel/Palestine. Grandma didn’t let that get in the way of hitting the markets in Damascus. My grandparents visit the sights where Paul went and Arabraham grew up and the ancient kingdoms that left their mark–Persia, Rome, Greece, and the Arabs. Damascus holds a Biblical/ancient quality for me.

John Wreford: An amazing photographer living in Damascus capturing the Middle East for high end journals and such. If you haven’t seen much of the Middle East or enjoy stunning images, check out his website.

Zachary Queen: My Arabic students and I got to know a former Brigham Young University student who is now studying in Damascus CASA program. I’ve learned from him about a different side of Damascus–the more day to day living. He plays off and on with a soccer team there. It’s interesting to hear bits and pieces from him about playing soccer late into the night and struggles for recognition becauase he is an American. He talks about working with Iraqi refugees, hanging out with friends on the weekends, etc. With all the layers of history and it’s central place in Syrian politics, it’s a place where people continue their stories.